Red Flag Advisor

Red Flag Advisor

Tell us what happened.

You don't have to guess alone.

๐Ÿ”’ Only you have access to your analysis.

  • โฑ๏ธ Your analysis takes about a minute
  • ๐Ÿ”’ Completely private
  • โœจ 10 free analyses, refreshed every month

How it works

How it works

Three simple steps to better understand your conversation.

  1. 01

    Paste your conversation

    Share the conversation that's been on your mind โ€” privately, in your own words.

  2. 02

    You see the patterns

    Discover the dynamics and signals you've been sensing, gently surfaced and easy to recognise.

  3. 03

    You decide with clarity

    Walk away with calm clarity โ€” a perspective you can trust before you decide your next step.

Example analysis

Example analysis

A preview of what an analysis looks like before you start.

Key insight

โ€œWarm words, weak follow-through. The connection feels real โ€” but plans keep slipping, and that gap is what's wearing you down.โ€

Communication score

Caution โ€” mixed signals

62 / 100

Red flags

  • Plans postponed without a concrete alternative.
  • Affectionate words not matched by action.

Positive signals

  • Consistent presence and willingness to apologize.
  • Openness to discussing feelings instead of avoiding them.

Short summary

A warm but inconsistent dynamic. Worth one calm, direct conversation to see whether actions catch up with the words.

Your full report includes positive signals, key takeaways and a personal reflection.

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