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  • โœ“Clear red flags and green flags
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  • โœ“Consistent scoring across situations

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Mixed signals

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Red Flag Score

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Healthy Signals

4/10

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โš ๏ธ Main concern: Words and actions don't match โ€” affection appears, then long silences follow.

๐ŸŒฑ Positive signs: They reach out warmly when present and remember things you've shared.

๐Ÿง  What this may mean: A pattern of inconsistent availability that can leave you anxious between contacts.

โœจ Next step: Name what you need clearly once, and notice whether the behavior changes.

๐Ÿ“ Summary: This looks like meaningful inconsistency worth a calm, direct conversation.

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